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    "IF"Sharon is sick, its because she chooses to be!

    Started by Yale Steam at 2013/09/21 02:56PM
    Latest post: 2013/09/25 02:19PM, Views: 4574, Replies: 145
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    #101   2013/09/23 10:51AM
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    jhaxx
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    Sharon is an opportunist she manipulated the situation with Nick from day one, when her friend Amy was dating him she found out the not cool guy was rich and she went after him, her goal digger ways where always there even before the illness, the illness just heightens her manic behavior .

    #102   2013/09/23 11:09AM
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    Yale Steam
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    I tell ya what, lets get down to the nitty gritty here shall we.

    How do you all think Nick is going to react when he finds out what Sharon has done, changing his paternity letter and her role in Phyllis' accident?

    Do you honesty think he will say, "Sharon it's okay, you are sick so all is forgiven," etc?

    And how will Summer react to it all?

    #103   2013/09/23 11:12AM
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    YR2013
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    Quote spooch:
    Quote Ethelmae02:
    Quote spooch:
    Quote ajsp35801: As I read these posts, it is quite clear to me that some people do not understand what a mental illness is, especially when it comes to taking medication. You can not levy the same rationales on these people that you do with people with physical illnesses. If Sharon had cancer and refused to take meds, that would be one thing. And everything that is said would be true. It is her fault because she is refusing to get help. No excuses there. But with mental illnesses, if often fools the person like they don't need the medication...or taking the medication fools person like they don't need it because they are feeling better. I have a cousin who suffers from schizophrenia. She wants to be better and does well for a long time with taking her medication and seeing her counselor...then she gets too confident and things go down hill. Then the family has to force her into a mental institution to be medicated against her will until it works and she gets back on track. That's mental illness. I despise Sharon and always have, but having dealt with mental illness first hand, I have the history to know that this is the disease that Sharon has that makes her get off her meds and not some failing in her character that makes her do it.
    I think that is a very arrogant opinion to say that we don't understand mental illness because we think Sharon is responsible for her actions. She knows exactly what she is doing. She should be institutionalized, if she is not responsible for her actions. She has changed a paternity test and burnt someone's home down, and she has used her daughter as a pawn. She needs to be stopped.
    I just hate being talked down to cause its Sharon whose the topic. We all here are adults and we all know mental illness is real and we all know someone whose suffering one way or another from it. We all know many homeless are victims of mental illness as well. Sharon has been told she has a mental condition. She has been prescribed pills to take. She has the money to see her therapist on a regular basis. She refuses sound advise from her son and doctor. What more can one do for her? she is too selfish to consider her daughter and her losing grip with reality day by day. I do not pity her. At least she can afford the best care. Others are uninsured and cant afford to see a therapist or afford health care. Thats real but this is soap operaland.


    It is such a rude way to talk to people. I think the majority of us in this world have dealt with crazy. Crazy should not b allowed to walk the streets when they are a danger to us. Sharon is a danger.


    Might I suggest you stay inside, lock all doors and windows and never leave your home because believe it or not, there are a LOT of people who are suffering from all types of mental disorders/illness and they walk the streets each day and oh, some don't...wait for it....don't even take their med either...*gasp*

    #104   2013/09/23 11:17AM
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    YR2013
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    Quote quimby:
    Quote purplehearts14: I strongly disagree with everything you've said. Sharon is mentally ill and how can a mentally ill person make rational decisions on their own. It is obvious she can't differentiate between what's real and what's not. And please, Stop blaming Sharon for Cassie's death. Thank you.





    Quote Charlie Big: I understand this disease very well and what is so disgusting about Sharon is the fact that for years she has known that she is sick and her mother knew that she is sick also. Instead of being honest with the Newman's from day one, Doris just thought that maybe the Newman's could get through to this idiot and see that she got the help she needed. Sharon spent hears hiding this from Nick and the entire family. This woman had the means, the opportunity and the resources to help herself. Some of it can be her illness but I don't believe for a second that it is all about that. She knows right from wrong. Sharon has been told time and again that she needs to be on medication and she needs to be checking in with her shrink on a regualr basis and instead, she just goes off looking for the next screw to play house with. Sharon is a wallower, she always has been. She should have never been given children because without Nikki, Miquel and Nick to raise them, there is no telling where they would be. Well, we know where Cassie ended up and poor Faith! It was absolutely cruel for Sharon to lazily lay down and not care that she could be pregnant, when she was not capable of caring for a child. We also saw evidence of that when she got the child back from Ashely. Poor Faith has not had any stability in her life, other than being with Nick, since she left Ashely. I am not willing to to say that it is because of her illness that she does the things that she does at all. It may be part of it but Sharon knows what she is doing. She is just getting to old and the illness has become so pregressive that she can't control herself anymore.

    When I think of the people out there who would give anything for the kind of resources that this character has and the money to help themselves and I watch this lazy wallower just slop around stalking Nick to get a screw out of him, it makes me sick. To see how she is abusing her child, that she never should have had to begin with, that is the real tragedy. Faith was born in a mental institution! If that doesn't speak loudly as to how sick Sharon is, then no one is actually listening. She wants a screw so badly that she don't care about anything else. The way that she lets herself wallow and squat on that ranch like a desperate lap dog. That is a disgrace! She burned down thier family home and yet she is still trying to force herself on them all, using her children as her meal ticket in the door. They can't stand her and yet, she holds on to Nick like a life support to stay in that family and that poor stupid idiot has yet to wake up to the truth of it all. Any other man would have put Sharon away long before now. She is a threat to society and probably to herslf, when she realizes that she can't get the screw to bandaid the problem anymore. I don't pity her and I don't see her as a victim either. I just see her as lazy and pathetic. Most mentally ill people who can get the help and don't are pathetic.


    Sharon just recently found out she has BP. Sharon and her mother have not known she was sick, so to say they knew for years is wrong. To say that people with a mental illness don't get help are pathetic, is offensive. Some don't realize that they are sick. People go off their medication for different reasons, they might not realize the effect that this might cause. I don't for one second you understand this disease or any other mental illness. I am not saying I do, but I deal with my disorder everyday so I can have compassion for someone who is struggling. I know you hate Sharon, but please be aware of what you post.


    Excellent post. My heart goes out to anyone who suffers or struggles with any form of mental illness/disorders because I've seen first hand what it does to people and families. Continue to be strong.

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    #105   2013/09/23 11:25AM
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    YR2013
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    Quote Yale Steam: I tell ya what, lets get down to the nitty gritty here shall we.

    How do you all think Nick is going to react when he finds out what Sharon has done, changing his paternity letter and her role in Phyllis' accident?

    Do you honesty think he will say, "Sharon it's okay, you are sick so all is forgiven," etc?

    And how will Summer react to it all?


    Well, maybe for two seconds or so, Nick will shut his mouth, assess the situation before playing Mr. High and Mighty and think of the part he played in all this. When he assess it, then he can insist she sees a doctor who then sends her for mental help in a facility. As for Summer I still think she could be Jack's child and I'm not about to think differently until a proper test is done, after all, the hair could still be Faith's.

    #106   2013/09/23 11:39AM
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    Yale Steam
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    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam: I tell ya what, lets get down to the nitty gritty here shall we.

    How do you all think Nick is going to react when he finds out what Sharon has done, changing his paternity letter and her role in Phyllis' accident?

    Do you honesty think he will say, "Sharon it's okay, you are sick so all is forgiven," etc?

    And how will Summer react to it all?


    Well, maybe for two seconds or so, Nick will shut his mouth, assess the situation before playing Mr. High and Mighty and think of the part he played in all this. When he assess it, then he can insist she sees a doctor who then sends her for mental help in a facility. As for Summer I still think she could be Jack's child and I'm not about to think differently until a proper test is done, after all, the hair could still be Faith's.


    I highly they went through all of this for Summer to be Jack's kid again. And we don't even know that the writers are writing in another test. So I would not count on another test foe certain.


    Summer is Nick's child.


    And Summer does not want to be an Abbott or Jack's kid. She won't even let him have a relationship with her. She is not letting him get close to her and there is a reason for that people.

    #107   2013/09/23 11:45AM
    Re:
    YR2013
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    Quote Yale Steam:
    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam: I tell ya what, lets get down to the nitty gritty here shall we.

    How do you all think Nick is going to react when he finds out what Sharon has done, changing his paternity letter and her role in Phyllis' accident?

    Do you honesty think he will say, "Sharon it's okay, you are sick so all is forgiven," etc?

    And how will Summer react to it all?


    Well, maybe for two seconds or so, Nick will shut his mouth, assess the situation before playing Mr. High and Mighty and think of the part he played in all this. When he assess it, then he can insist she sees a doctor who then sends her for mental help in a facility. As for Summer I still think she could be Jack's child and I'm not about to think differently until a proper test is done, after all, the hair could still be Faith's.


    I highly they went through all of this for Summer to be Jack's kid again. And we don't even know that the writers are writing in another test. So I would not count on another test foe certain.


    Summer is Nick's child.


    And Summer does not want to be an Abbott or Jack's kid. She won't even let him have a relationship with her. She is not letting him get close to her and there is a reason for that people.


    The s/l was to toss Sharon under the bus so Nick and Phyllis would qualify for halos but that doesn't work for this fan. They all play a part in this mess.

    The paternity is still questionable and it will be if not done properly.

    Summer is a brat, she hasn't improve over time. Her attitude has always stink starting with her bullying and then running her car into Chadam vehicle causing their miscarriage.

    #108   2013/09/23 12:00PM
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    Yale Steam
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    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam:
    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam: I tell ya what, lets get down to the nitty gritty here shall we.

    How do you all think Nick is going to react when he finds out what Sharon has done, changing his paternity letter and her role in Phyllis' accident?

    Do you honesty think he will say, "Sharon it's okay, you are sick so all is forgiven," etc?

    And how will Summer react to it all?


    Well, maybe for two seconds or so, Nick will shut his mouth, assess the situation before playing Mr. High and Mighty and think of the part he played in all this. When he assess it, then he can insist she sees a doctor who then sends her for mental help in a facility. As for Summer I still think she could be Jack's child and I'm not about to think differently until a proper test is done, after all, the hair could still be Faith's.


    I highly they went through all of this for Summer to be Jack's kid again. And we don't even know that the writers are writing in another test. So I would not count on another test foe certain.


    Summer is Nick's child.


    And Summer does not want to be an Abbott or Jack's kid. She won't even let him have a relationship with her. She is not letting him get close to her and there is a reason for that people.


    The s/l was to toss Sharon under the bus so Nick and Phyllis would qualify for halos but that doesn't work for this fan. They all play a part in this mess.

    The paternity is still questionable and it will be if not done properly.

    Summer is a brat, she hasn't improve over time. Her attitude has always stink starting with her bullying and then running her car into Chadam vehicle causing their miscarriage.


    I said this before, Summer is a brat to you and others who say it only because she is not giving Jack the time of day. If she were, you and other would be singing her praises. But she's not so she's a brat.

    I don't blame Summer! Jack is being pushy, overbarring and obsessive. He is pathetic.

    #109   2013/09/23 12:03PM
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    alanadz
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    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam:
    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam: I tell ya what, lets get down to the nitty gritty here shall we.

    How do you all think Nick is going to react when he finds out what Sharon has done, changing his paternity letter and her role in Phyllis' accident?

    Do you honesty think he will say, "Sharon it's okay, you are sick so all is forgiven," etc?

    And how will Summer react to it all?


    Well, maybe for two seconds or so, Nick will shut his mouth, assess the situation before playing Mr. High and Mighty and think of the part he played in all this. When he assess it, then he can insist she sees a doctor who then sends her for mental help in a facility. As for Summer I still think she could be Jack's child and I'm not about to think differently until a proper test is done, after all, the hair could still be Faith's.


    I highly they went through all of this for Summer to be Jack's kid again. And we don't even know that the writers are writing in another test. So I would not count on another test foe certain.


    Summer is Nick's child.


    And Summer does not want to be an Abbott or Jack's kid. She won't even let him have a relationship with her. She is not letting him get close to her and there is a reason for that people.


    The s/l was to toss Sharon under the bus so Nick and Phyllis would qualify for halos but that doesn't work for this fan. They all play a part in this mess.

    The paternity is still questionable and it will be if not done properly.

    Summer is a brat, she hasn't improve over time. Her attitude has always stink starting with her bullying and then running her car into Chadam vehicle causing their miscarriage.



    The phaters will always question. Those sour grapes never go away. But the writers and EP don't hate Summer or Nick, so all is well.

    #110   2013/09/23 12:03PM
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    Homesick Cajun
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    Quote Yale Steam:
    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam:
    Quote YR2013:
    Quote Yale Steam: I tell ya what, lets get down to the nitty gritty here shall we.

    How do you all think Nick is going to react when he finds out what Sharon has done, changing his paternity letter and her role in Phyllis' accident?

    Do you honesty think he will say, "Sharon it's okay, you are sick so all is forgiven," etc?

    And how will Summer react to it all?


    Well, maybe for two seconds or so, Nick will shut his mouth, assess the situation before playing Mr. High and Mighty and think of the part he played in all this. When he assess it, then he can insist she sees a doctor who then sends her for mental help in a facility. As for Summer I still think she could be Jack's child and I'm not about to think differently until a proper test is done, after all, the hair could still be Faith's.


    I highly they went through all of this for Summer to be Jack's kid again. And we don't even know that the writers are writing in another test. So I would not count on another test foe certain.


    Summer is Nick's child.


    And Summer does not want to be an Abbott or Jack's kid. She won't even let him have a relationship with her. She is not letting him get close to her and there is a reason for that people.


    The s/l was to toss Sharon under the bus so Nick and Phyllis would qualify for halos but that doesn't work for this fan. They all play a part in this mess.

    The paternity is still questionable and it will be if not done properly.

    Summer is a brat, she hasn't improve over time. Her attitude has always stink starting with her bullying and then running her car into Chadam vehicle causing their miscarriage.


    I said this before, Summer is a brat to you and others who say it only because she is not giving Jack the time of day. If she were, you and other would be singing her praises. But she's not so she's a brat.

    I don't blame Summer! Jack is being pushy, overbarring and obsessive. He is pathetic.


    It's not only Jack. It's because she is Phyllis and Nick's daughter.

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