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    #15541   2013/07/28 11:18AM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    jamilah
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    Quote justtwocents:
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    Quote jamilah: I have been thinking about Chylan wedding and a possible scenario that could be the unexpected or surprise. At the wedding Chelsea tells Dylan he is not the father and Adam is. Dylan refuses to believe her and insists that he is the father. He has bought a business and has made preparations for this child and refuses to just walk way.
    In his mind she lied to him before so who is to say she is telling him the truth. Jeff, Anita and Chloe would be there to back up her story but Dylan is in denial and refuse to believe them also. He is very angry at Chelsea and tells her he is not going to be shut out of his childs life. Not sure where I would place Adam but he eventually finds out he is the father not Dylan. Part of him is happy because his suspicions came true but the other part is angry because Chelsea lied and he missed out most of the pregnancy and she was about to give his child to another man. Both men wants to have proof from Chelsea because of her lie and wants a paternity test but because of the scares that Chelsea had in the past, all 3 of them decide its best to wait until the baby is born. Adam would still be going through his issues with Victor and NE but since he now knows that he is going t o be a father, this changes things for Adam and he realize he has some major decisions to make. While Dylan is still mad at Chelsea and is very depressed about her lie and have to deal with the possibility of losing this child. So while both men is mad at Chelsea, I see her moving out from Dylan and on her own. She feels very bad for what she has done and has regrets.

    In the meantime she tries to reach out to Adam and they get closer as they prepare to be parents. After Chelsea gives birth Dylan insists on a paternity test but the issue with the babies eyes comes up. This is where the eye specialist would come in and this would prove to all that the baby is Adams because of the same eye issue as hope.

    Let me know your thoughts, this is the only scenario I could come up with that would explain why SB and MCE is still working together. I refuse to believe that they will make Dylan understanding and want to stay with Chelsea after such a big lie. He would look more like a fool than he already is. What she did was wrong and there is no way she should be rewarded by having Dylan wanting to stay with her. In Adams case he will need to try and get along with her for the sake of his child but I fully expect him to give her the cold shoulder for awhile until they find their way back to each other.


    This is possible, but I think the truth is not out at that moment, or at least not clear. I think her having to go to the hospital over pains is the surprise and with Victor and Adam being there that will just add to the stress.

    I am thinking Dylan may be learning the truth in the scenes that were taped this week, maybe the one that Joshua Morrow referred to. You are right in saying that if Dylan forgave her then it would be like rewarding her for the lie.

    If Adam does not know the truth in what has already been taped, then I figure he will soon. If anyone mentions MCE and MM taping on a particular day, or MCE, MM, and EB, then will may not something is up.

    I can see Adam being hurt and upset initially, but he may talk with people like Jack, Avery, and think about things he has done in the past and reach out to Chelsea and have a good heart to heart.



    I like the scenerio and it would explain how this could be drawn out for a few weeks. Wasn't it a few weeks ago that MCE mentioned she's been filming a lot with MM?

    I also like it because the truth is out BEFORE the baby is born.

    (I still like the idea, although not the most romantic, that Chelsea is "forced" to tell the truth on the stand - not only about Adam being the father but also about her motives since we'd all like to know what's been going on in her pretty little head for months!!)

    Oh heck, who am I kidding? I'll take ANY scenario at this point as long as Adam knows the truth before baby is born.


    I don't want to watch the rest of the pregnancy with Chelsea worshipping Dylan and him being her hero.. Thats exactly what will happen if Adam is kept in the dark until after the birth. If all we are going to get is Chylan being all in love for the rest of the pregnancy I will stop watching until after the baby is born.

    #15542   2013/07/28 11:39AM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    jamilah
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    There is a photo of Chelsea and Dylan on the Daytime Confidential website..it is the scene when they were at the hospital after the Lamaze class. Above the photo it says You decide:worst soap of the week
    Under the photo it says
    Which show do you think was the Worst Soap of the Week?

    Here is the results of the votes

    AMC - 5%
    B&B - 13%
    Days - 7%
    GH - 24%
    OLTL - 6%
    Y&R - 44%

    Y&R voted worse soap of the week with a photo of Chylan. What does that say of this pairing.

    #15543   2013/07/28 11:46AM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    justtwocents
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    Quote jamilah: There is a photo of Chelsea and Dylan on the Daytime Confidential website..it is the scene when they were at the hospital after the Lamaze class. Above the photo it says You decide:worst soap of the week
    Under the photo it says
    Which show do you think was the Worst Soap of the Week?

    Here is the results of the votes

    AMC - 5%
    B&B - 13%
    Days - 7%
    GH - 24%
    OLTL - 6%
    Y&R - 44%

    Y&R voted worse soap of the week with a photo of Chylan. What does that say of this pairing.



    It says what we've been trying to say for months. L.O.V.E. it!!!! Wow, 44%. This should speak volumes to TPTB.

    #15544   2013/07/28 12:01PM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    Sudsy Sue
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    At their last meeting at the hospital where Adam saw Chelsea and Chloe talking and asked if everything was o.k., I got the impression from Adam's demeanor that he strongly suspects the baby is his and only a slight chance it's Dylan's. I know the spoilers say Chelsea and Dylan's wedding doesn't' go as planned (or something to that effect) I think we can strongly assume that Chelsea will go into labor since we know about the pediatric eye specialist. I just can't figure out if she will go into labor at Dylan's apartment (I get this from the leaked script where paramedics are called to Dylan's apartment) just before they go to the justice of the peace (or if she goes into labor at the courthouse (since there is a part for a justice of the peace). I think Adam is honoring his word to Chelsea to stay away from her because he doesn't want her to lose another baby. He seems to be around just enough to be keeping an eye on the pregnancy (did anyone else notice that Adam was looking at Chelsea's tummy at their last encounter at the hospital). He told Chelsea more than once that he can count or he can to the math. I am just hoping that somehow he ends up at the hospital for the birth of the baby and Dylan is elsewhere.

    At any rate he will have to know the baby is for sure his when the eye specialist comesinto play. It would be great if her Ob/gym told Chelsea about the baby's sight problem and she lets go of her baby lie and calls for Adam. Then Adam will get to see and hold his baby before anything else Dylan happens. (Maybe Dylan can be having his own crisis when she goes into labor and he has to admit to himself that the baby is not his (which I really think he knows too).

    Then after the baby daddy issue comes to light, Adam and Chelsea will begin their journey back together as to why they got into the mess they are in. We know how much Adam loves Chelsea and wants her back, but Chelsea still believes the baby and her will be second or third or fourth in line next to Sharon, victor and NE. They have a lot to work through......should be a lot of fights and making up. I am Soooo ready for the fights and making up!

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    #15545   2013/07/28 12:55PM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    Ari1
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    One thing I'm thankful for is the writers have not shown a lot of Chylan scenes bonding over the baby. All Dylan does is bring her food. We haven't seen him touching her stomach a lot or talking to the baby like Adam did last fall. We haven't seen Chylan at the doctors since the first time or them getting anymore sonograms. Even at the birthing class, they were walking out so we didn't have to endure those moments. This might be on purpose bc many fans are upset that Adam isn't getting to enjoy the pregnancy. I also think it's a good sign that Chylan won't last bc the writers are keeping everything between them as superficial.

    #15546   2013/07/28 02:12PM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    Chuckyducky
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    Quote Sudsy Sue: At their last meeting at the hospital where Adam saw Chelsea and Chloe talking and asked if everything was o.k., I got the impression from Adam's demeanor that he strongly suspects the baby is his and only a slight chance it's Dylan's. I know the spoilers say Chelsea and Dylan's wedding doesn't' go as planned (or something to that effect) I think we can strongly assume that Chelsea will go into labor since we know about the pediatric eye specialist. I just can't figure out if she will go into labor at Dylan's apartment (I get this from the leaked script where paramedics are called to Dylan's apartment) just before they go to the justice of the peace (or if she goes into labor at the courthouse (since there is a part for a justice of the peace). I think Adam is honoring his word to Chelsea to stay away from her because he doesn't want her to lose another baby. He seems to be around just enough to be keeping an eye on the pregnancy (did anyone else notice that Adam was looking at Chelsea's tummy at their last encounter at the hospital). He told Chelsea more than once that he can count or he can to the math. I am just hoping that somehow he ends up at the hospital for the birth of the baby and Dylan is elsewhere.

    At any rate he will have to know the baby is for sure his when the eye specialist comesinto play. It would be great if her Ob/gym told Chelsea about the baby's sight problem and she lets go of her baby lie and calls for Adam. Then Adam will get to see and hold his baby before anything else Dylan happens. (Maybe Dylan can be having his own crisis when she goes into labor and he has to admit to himself that the baby is not his (which I really think he knows too).

    Then after the baby daddy issue comes to light, Adam and Chelsea will begin their journey back together as to why they got into the mess they are in. We know how much Adam loves Chelsea and wants her back, but Chelsea still believes the baby and her will be second or third or fourth in line next to Sharon, victor and NE. They have a lot to work through......should be a lot of fights and making up. I am Soooo ready for the fights and making up!


    I had the same exact impression. Adam looked suspicious, bitter, worried, hurt, resentful and near tears as he stared after Chelsea's retreating form. It was intense! He looked as if he knew she was lying and all he wanted was the truth. No matter what he says to her or what promises he keeps (like promising to say away so she'd be less stressed out), she continues to lie about the paternity. The expression on his face looked like he'd been punched in the gut and I couldn't help but feel so bad for him, boy.

    And yes, I did notice the way he stared at Chelsea's belly the minute he questioned whether she was okay. He is drawn to that baby and if he listens to his instincts, he'll know the baby is his. Forget about Dylan!

    What I would love to see happen is this, in the following order:

    1. Adam speaks to a family law attorney
    2. Attorney will file a motion to order a paternity test
    3. Chelsea is rushed to the ER in excruciating pain
    4. Adam rushes to the hospital when Chelsea's admitted
    5. She delivers a healthy 7 lbs. baby (boy/girl)
    6. After she recovers and the baby is reasonable in good health, there will be a hearing
    7. If Chelsea refuses the order, she will be held in contempt and jailed
    8. Dylan strongly suspects that the test will prove Adam to be baby's bio-dad
    9. Dylan kidnaps the baby unbeknownst to Chelsea and Adam
    10. Just as Adam is about to a paternity test, which will prove he's the father, he learns the baby is gone.

    That's what I hope will happen but you never know.

    #15547   2013/07/28 02:16PM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    Chuckyducky
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    Thank you for the good vibes, guys! I don't feel half as silly for sending The Chadam Memo, now. Anyway, thank you again!

    #15548   2013/07/28 02:20PM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    Chuckyducky
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    Quote Ari1: One thing I'm thankful for is the writers have not shown a lot of Chylan scenes bonding over the baby. All Dylan does is bring her food. We haven't seen him touching her stomach a lot or talking to the baby like Adam did last fall. We haven't seen Chylan at the doctors since the first time or them getting anymore sonograms. Even at the birthing class, they were walking out so we didn't have to endure those moments. This might be on purpose bc many fans are upset that Adam isn't getting to enjoy the pregnancy. I also think it's a good sign that Chylan won't last bc the writers are keeping everything between them as superficial.


    Lol, whelp, I guess there's a silver lining in that. I didn't want to see them bonding during any moment involving Chelsea's pregnancy It would've irritated me to no end. So if the only good thing to come out of it are less scenes where the two are bonding over baby, then I consider that a good omen. Lord knows, I wasn't feelin' it the last time!

    #15549   2013/07/28 02:40PM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    Laduree
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    Quote cdhg:
    Quote Spike1976:
    Quote Laduree:
    Quote ChadamEpicLove: Good Morning fellow Chadamanians which are increasing in numbers.

    OMG, This has got to be the most busy and fast thread on this board. I guess Chadam has that kind of spill on us, knowing how they barely share a scene any more. The past 3 months have been a total Chadam drought for us fans. No wonder the July rating is at it's lowest.

    This whole year we have had this fake Chylan so called love story and nasty barf bucket same old boring Shadam. Adam doing booty call with the prostitute of the town Matress w*ore Sharho , boy oh boy I don't know why the writers and SC and MM keep pimping this couple. Don't they realize that a Shadam pairing has been done for the past 3 years and it tanked YR in rating and cause many old loyal fans of the show to say bye bye to YR due to their nastiness and toxicity of that vomit pairing. At least with Chylan, we have a sweet romance even though it is delusional to some extent. Shadam is nasty and same boring storyline over and over again. Adam and Sharon are about sex and then for the afterglow it is the same how we can't be with each other blah blah seriously if you two are that bad for each otehr then stop doing the nasty. Sharon is queen of w***e. She is digusting and is an incest twit. Sleeping with all Newman men Thank god Noah is her son or otherwise she would bang him. I used to love Sharon and Shick and only watched YR because of them but she keep becoming a sex crazed w***e who kept on promising that she will change but in the last 2 decades she is yet to find herself. She is needy, home wrecker, sleeps around all the time, manipulates her own children, is the worse mother considering choosing Adam over Faith and the list goes on and on. SC is a beautiful woman but has no acting ability compared to MS and MCE. The only reason she is still surviving is because she is a vet. She can barely play a supporting cast let alone a leading lady.

    The only reason we viewers are stuck with this boring and non-ending Shadam bull is due to SC and MM pimping it . This whole mess of this pairing started with SC pitching it to the writers and look what this pairing did to her character. Sharon 's downfall was majorly because Shadam. Granted Sharon was always a needy and doormat before Adam but Shadam ruined her character to a point where no amount of writing genius can redeem her.

    Now coming to Adam, the reason I love Chadam is mainly how their story was written and developed, how real and genuine their connection were. How a con and demon like Adam would change each other for the better but Adam in my opinion never really changed. After Riley died, he went demonic again, treating Chelsea like crap, lying to her, helping the ever so miss needy ShareAnewman while his own wife was hurting and was mourning the lose of their child all alone.
    Fine we get it that he has done very awful thing to Sharon and will forever feel guilty for kidnapping her child and blah blah blah but burning half of GC and then burning Chelsea's parents business and then asking your wife to stay mum, this guy in my opinion hasn't really changed. He doesn't love neither Chelsea nor Sharho. He only loves himself. The only two things he cares about his dddy dearest love which he will never get even after taking a bullet for him and NE which soon he will be losing.

    Adam might have graduated from Harvard but his IQ is lower than 13. He let matress who*e come between him and his wife and let Chelsea go because hewanted Sharho but then after Sharho rejected him which is not believable considering how easy she is to have specially to Adam, she even agreed to be his prostitute only without any pay. She is easy and that is why Adam can always have her without putting an effort. She and her nasty legs are always open for Newman men .
    And now we are supposed to believe that Sharon was just a booty call and Adam was moving on with twit Melanie all because Chelsea doesn't want to have anything to do with him. He is drinking and feeling like a lost puppy. Adam is slowly becoming a joke. I don't know how they can make him Victor 2.0 when he barely have any charm.

    Victor has a way with women , he might be old but he always charms the pant off women, Adam comes off as loser, Sharon wants him because no else wants her, she is easy and always will be, Melanie is just a cheap newbie who is also easy to get. Other than that, no other women wants Adam. He only had a real and powerful connection with Chelsea but once Chelsea saw the lies and ugliness and how Adam was manipulating her, she left him. Adam was emotionally and mentally abusing her so she was rightfully justified.
    I can't really blame Chelsea. She was deeply hurt by Adam and how he flaunted that easy mattress wh**e so called cheap nurse frosty finger in the same home they bought and dreamed of building a family in.

    Now as a Chelsea FF, I don't know if I should continue supporting Chadam or pray that my spunky terror move on to a better guy . The more I think about it they more I hate Adam and how he treated the best thing that ever happened to him. This dude has serious issues or mental problems. He let a easy and incest loving sl** destroy his relationship with a young woman who not only is beautiful and spunky and grey but also was his loyal friend and listener when middle aged shareanewman left him all alone while he was blind and at his most vulnerable.

    Despite of knowing that Shadam has destroyed YR a lot in the past 4 years and are a bust for the show, they keep listening to SC and MM and their pimping. In my opinion we viewers deserve better. They can't insult our intelligence with this nasty pairing. All they are good at is doing the nasty in the office. They are all sex and manipulation, no love, only obsession.

    Chelsea made Adam tolerable to me and humanized him a little bit but it is unfair that Chelsea had to be used to redeem Adam. Since we all Sharho couldn't redeem him due to that ugly and nasty history.

    Lord Jesus, I will be soon saying good bye to this show if Chadam doesn't find their way back to each other. Adam needs to do a lot of begging cause he is the cause of this mess. Chelsea might not be a saint but her tricks pale in comparison to Adam and Sharho.

    I will always be Team Chadam and Team Chelsea but I am not an Adam fan. His character is just pure demonic and psycho and has no human quality in him . The only time he was human was when he was married to Chels.

    If the writers wrong us and instead of Chadam, do another boring round of Shadam, then I am done with this show. It would serve them right if the show gets cancelled since they rather pimp their own faves instead of what people or audience wants.


    Good post. I'm an Adam FF, so I've gotta defend my boy...just a bit. He was completely in the wrong for allowing Sharon to mess with his guilt-riddled mind, because that's all it was. He loved his wife, but he let his past with Sharon confuse his feelings. He even admitted to Chelsea that she messes with his mind. He will probably always feel guilty for what he did, and nothing will take that away. He can save everyone in GC, but the guilt over Faith will always be there. He has to learn to live with it, and not let it consume him.

    When he lost Chelsea, his confusion started to ebb, but then he also has these HUGE daddy issues. Lots of people want to condemn him for that, and for being such a whinebag over a useless tool like Victor. Imagine growing up never knowing your father, only to discover your father is this wealthy and powerful billionaire with kids HE RAISED. It would really mess with your self-esteem. Since this revelation was dumped in Adam's lap he has been filled with self-loathing, insecurities, and pain. He wonders why his father didn't want him. It's not enough that Hope didn't want him to know about Victor. He sees how powerful Victor is, and if Victor wanted to be in his life, he would have been. Nothing would have stopped him. Hope just gave him an out.

    Adam has twisted himself into a pretzel to become a Newman. I think it's more out of a desire to prove that he's just as good as them, than his love for them. He has these walls he erects around himself to keep from feeling too much. Chelsea is the ONLY person to crash through those walls. Adam was always weepy and stalkerish with Sharon. He was real with Chelsea. She reached him in ways Sharon never did. He knows this now, but like Jack Abbott, Adam must learn the hard way.

    I'm not trying to excuse his Sharon behavior while married because he was SO WRONG on so many levels, but I get why he did it. As to his obsession with NE, I get that too. I do think Chelsea could have been a little more understanding and compassionate over his issues with Victor and NE, but after the Sharon debacle she had had enough.

    Anyway, sorry for the looooooong post, but I wanted to present Adam's point of view the way I see it.


    I agree. Chelsea lost all Adam's trust and think the worse of him. The love is still there but the trust is gone.

    In regards to Chylan without trust there is no love. Chadam started with trust that turned to love.


    Yes, Chelsea told Adam as part of their New Years reunion about not trusting him and wanting to leave the country. He has to earn her trust, which she will have to earn his back to. She felt humiliated for not being put first with a guy she was and is madly in love with.


    All true, but I wish they had kept the focus on Sharon because the haters used it as a blunt instrument to call Chelsea selfish and immature. It was a plot point, but I think she had just reached her limit because of the Sharon debacle which preceded the Paris reversal on his part. I will always believe she should have fought harder for him, but that's the Adam bias in me.

    #15550   2013/07/28 02:46PM
    Re: Chadam Fans Only NO BASHING
    Laduree
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    Quote gardengal:
    Quote cdhg:
    Quote Spike1976:
    Quote Laduree:
    Quote ChadamEpicLove: Good Morning fellow Chadamanians which are increasing in numbers.

    OMG, This has got to be the most busy and fast thread on this board. I guess Chadam has that kind of spill on us, knowing how they barely share a scene any more. The past 3 months have been a total Chadam drought for us fans. No wonder the July rating is at it's lowest.

    This whole year we have had this fake Chylan so called love story and nasty barf bucket same old boring Shadam. Adam doing booty call with the prostitute of the town Matress w*ore Sharho , boy oh boy I don't know why the writers and SC and MM keep pimping this couple. Don't they realize that a Shadam pairing has been done for the past 3 years and it tanked YR in rating and cause many old loyal fans of the show to say bye bye to YR due to their nastiness and toxicity of that vomit pairing. At least with Chylan, we have a sweet romance even though it is delusional to some extent. Shadam is nasty and same boring storyline over and over again. Adam and Sharon are about sex and then for the afterglow it is the same how we can't be with each other blah blah seriously if you two are that bad for each otehr then stop doing the nasty. Sharon is queen of w***e. She is digusting and is an incest twit. Sleeping with all Newman men Thank god Noah is her son or otherwise she would bang him. I used to love Sharon and Shick and only watched YR because of them but she keep becoming a sex crazed w***e who kept on promising that she will change but in the last 2 decades she is yet to find herself. She is needy, home wrecker, sleeps around all the time, manipulates her own children, is the worse mother considering choosing Adam over Faith and the list goes on and on. SC is a beautiful woman but has no acting ability compared to MS and MCE. The only reason she is still surviving is because she is a vet. She can barely play a supporting cast let alone a leading lady.

    The only reason we viewers are stuck with this boring and non-ending Shadam bull is due to SC and MM pimping it . This whole mess of this pairing started with SC pitching it to the writers and look what this pairing did to her character. Sharon 's downfall was majorly because Shadam. Granted Sharon was always a needy and doormat before Adam but Shadam ruined her character to a point where no amount of writing genius can redeem her.

    Now coming to Adam, the reason I love Chadam is mainly how their story was written and developed, how real and genuine their connection were. How a con and demon like Adam would change each other for the better but Adam in my opinion never really changed. After Riley died, he went demonic again, treating Chelsea like crap, lying to her, helping the ever so miss needy ShareAnewman while his own wife was hurting and was mourning the lose of their child all alone.
    Fine we get it that he has done very awful thing to Sharon and will forever feel guilty for kidnapping her child and blah blah blah but burning half of GC and then burning Chelsea's parents business and then asking your wife to stay mum, this guy in my opinion hasn't really changed. He doesn't love neither Chelsea nor Sharho. He only loves himself. The only two things he cares about his dddy dearest love which he will never get even after taking a bullet for him and NE which soon he will be losing.

    Adam might have graduated from Harvard but his IQ is lower than 13. He let matress who*e come between him and his wife and let Chelsea go because hewanted Sharho but then after Sharho rejected him which is not believable considering how easy she is to have specially to Adam, she even agreed to be his prostitute only without any pay. She is easy and that is why Adam can always have her without putting an effort. She and her nasty legs are always open for Newman men .
    And now we are supposed to believe that Sharon was just a booty call and Adam was moving on with twit Melanie all because Chelsea doesn't want to have anything to do with him. He is drinking and feeling like a lost puppy. Adam is slowly becoming a joke. I don't know how they can make him Victor 2.0 when he barely have any charm.

    Victor has a way with women , he might be old but he always charms the pant off women, Adam comes off as loser, Sharon wants him because no else wants her, she is easy and always will be, Melanie is just a cheap newbie who is also easy to get. Other than that, no other women wants Adam. He only had a real and powerful connection with Chelsea but once Chelsea saw the lies and ugliness and how Adam was manipulating her, she left him. Adam was emotionally and mentally abusing her so she was rightfully justified.
    I can't really blame Chelsea. She was deeply hurt by Adam and how he flaunted that easy mattress wh**e so called cheap nurse frosty finger in the same home they bought and dreamed of building a family in.

    Now as a Chelsea FF, I don't know if I should continue supporting Chadam or pray that my spunky terror move on to a better guy . The more I think about it they more I hate Adam and how he treated the best thing that ever happened to him. This dude has serious issues or mental problems. He let a easy and incest loving sl** destroy his relationship with a young woman who not only is beautiful and spunky and grey but also was his loyal friend and listener when middle aged shareanewman left him all alone while he was blind and at his most vulnerable.

    Despite of knowing that Shadam has destroyed YR a lot in the past 4 years and are a bust for the show, they keep listening to SC and MM and their pimping. In my opinion we viewers deserve better. They can't insult our intelligence with this nasty pairing. All they are good at is doing the nasty in the office. They are all sex and manipulation, no love, only obsession.

    Chelsea made Adam tolerable to me and humanized him a little bit but it is unfair that Chelsea had to be used to redeem Adam. Since we all Sharho couldn't redeem him due to that ugly and nasty history.

    Lord Jesus, I will be soon saying good bye to this show if Chadam doesn't find their way back to each other. Adam needs to do a lot of begging cause he is the cause of this mess. Chelsea might not be a saint but her tricks pale in comparison to Adam and Sharho.

    I will always be Team Chadam and Team Chelsea but I am not an Adam fan. His character is just pure demonic and psycho and has no human quality in him . The only time he was human was when he was married to Chels.

    If the writers wrong us and instead of Chadam, do another boring round of Shadam, then I am done with this show. It would serve them right if the show gets cancelled since they rather pimp their own faves instead of what people or audience wants.


    Good post. I'm an Adam FF, so I've gotta defend my boy...just a bit. He was completely in the wrong for allowing Sharon to mess with his guilt-riddled mind, because that's all it was. He loved his wife, but he let his past with Sharon confuse his feelings. He even admitted to Chelsea that she messes with his mind. He will probably always feel guilty for what he did, and nothing will take that away. He can save everyone in GC, but the guilt over Faith will always be there. He has to learn to live with it, and not let it consume him.

    When he lost Chelsea, his confusion started to ebb, but then he also has these HUGE daddy issues. Lots of people want to condemn him for that, and for being such a whinebag over a useless tool like Victor. Imagine growing up never knowing your father, only to discover your father is this wealthy and powerful billionaire with kids HE RAISED. It would really mess with your self-esteem. Since this revelation was dumped in Adam's lap he has been filled with self-loathing, insecurities, and pain. He wonders why his father didn't want him. It's not enough that Hope didn't want him to know about Victor. He sees how powerful Victor is, and if Victor wanted to be in his life, he would have been. Nothing would have stopped him. Hope just gave him an out.

    Adam has twisted himself into a pretzel to become a Newman. I think it's more out of a desire to prove that he's just as good as them, than his love for them. He has these walls he erects around himself to keep from feeling too much. Chelsea is the ONLY person to crash through those walls. Adam was always weepy and stalkerish with Sharon. He was real with Chelsea. She reached him in ways Sharon never did. He knows this now, but like Jack Abbott, Adam must learn the hard way.

    I'm not trying to excuse his Sharon behavior while married because he was SO WRONG on so many levels, but I get why he did it. As to his obsession with NE, I get that too. I do think Chelsea could have been a little more understanding and compassionate over his issues with Victor and NE, but after the Sharon debacle she had had enough.

    Anyway, sorry for the looooooong post, but I wanted to present Adam's point of view the way I see it.


    I agree. Chelsea lost all Adam's trust and think the worse of him. The love is still there but the trust is gone.

    In regards to Chylan without trust there is no love. Chadam started with trust that turned to love.


    Yes, Chelsea told Adam as part of their New Years reunion about not trusting him and wanting to leave the country. He has to earn her trust, which she will have to earn his back to. She felt humiliated for not being put first with a guy she was and is madly in love with.


    Although I do get Adam has always had daddy issues, I resent JG dialing Adam back to the version of Adam he initially introduced. Adam came into his own during MAB. He was making his fortune, and IMO for Adam to be the next Victor he needs to be self made. I think Adam and Victor need to be adversaries, not father and son.

    The extremely disappointing thing about Adam not being involved with this pregnancy is the issue of RP. I would loved to have heard Victor tell Adam to have Chelsea abort the child if the pre-screening show positive. Adam needs to know that Victor wanted him aborted. The good thing about the Chadam separation (if there is a good thing?), Adam will fight to be in his child's life. He may not take the baby away, but he will be involved unlike his miscreant sperm donor. I want Adam to have the aha moment in realizing his mother was protecting him from his father's inevitable rejection.

    As for Chelsea, she is so wrong on so many levels in this story. At least they showed her being reluctant. I do understand her NYE's ultimatum. Paris represented her, and Adam putting her first. He couldn't at that time. It annoys me Victor made him give up Sharon. Doing it on his own would have been a major gesture to Chelsea. Instead he had whackadoo by his side, while living his dream life. Now its Chelsea's turn to try to live her dream life. Hopefully when the baby is born, they both give up their respective dream lives for a real one with their child.


    Working together for the sake of their baby is the key for them to address the issues that tore them apart.


    It didn't really bother me that Victor gave Adam the Sharon ultimatum because it was so OBVIOUS to everyone except the most diehard Shadam supporters, that she was nothing more than old reliable to him. She was simply a habit with him. He was feeling lonely and missed his wife, so she was merely a booty call to him. When Victor issued his ultimatum he was like- yeah, whatever. The old Adam NEVER would have given up his precious Sharon over an ultimatum. No way! This Adam has moved past Sharon and all the misery she brings him, and daddy just gave him the out he would have reached on his own. Victor just rushed it.

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