She makes the show, and keeps it interesting. No she should not be so hard on Brandon, but that is how she is why should she change. We see only a small part of it, Farie might no more than what is televized so I won't judge her. She is an aging beautiful women, you can see she looked like Nidia in her younger days. I love the way Nadia respests her Mom and hang in with her no matter because she is her Mom. Keep it up Nadia, and Brandon should just let if roll off him back, eventually she will accept him.