Quote Hyatt4Life: If Dante turns on Lulu regarding this baby drama, I want to see Lulu get revenge on Dante big time. I want Nikolas if he is the one who finds out that Ben is Lante's son, I only want him to tell Lulu only. Then I want Lulu to have Milo to pretend to be Ben's bio father and marry Lulu and put his name on Ben's birth certificate. And then I want Nikolas and Lulu swear Milo to secretacy to never tell Dante that Ben is his son. Because if Dante turns his back on his wife and side with Maxie and Spinelli he will then deserve to lose his wife and his son. Because a husband and a wife are supposed to be loyal to each other and no one else.
If anyone turns on the other, it will be Lulu, not Dante. Dante is unbelievably committed to that woman and has put up with a ton of baggage from the day they met.
Lulu is her father's daughter - and just does not have the determination to stick to/with anything. Look at ho wshe was so willing and eager to jump into the sack with Milo - amnesia notwithstanding. (She knew she was married and that her husband was devoted to her and would stick by her no matter what, and yet she would have tossed it aside if Milo hadn't put on the brakes.)
What Dante might/should be doing is helping her see reality, not feed her delusion/obsession - that is neither loving nor supportive. But Lulu will see it as betrayal and wouldn't hesitate to dump him and/or go jump into bed with the next available male. Lulu needs Dante to be strong and genuinely do what is actually right for her: help her see reason and reality, deal with the loss, and move on together.