Ok, anyone should agree that Dusty needs time to move on past Jen's death, so I believe that Lucy needs to give him space, without interferring or hoping for something that just doesnt' need to happen now. But, on the other hand, Barbara, needs to but out of it altogether! If Dusty wants Lucy, and that's what he needs, Barbara should back off. It's not like Jen's going to come back from the dead anytime, and he doesn't need to be alone forever. Barbara Ryan is one meddling mother who needs to find herself a boyfriend!!!