Lily, KUDOS...am very proud of u and VERY HAPPY to discover this thread that is dedicated to u :) i can't/don't want to understand ppl who say that 'good girls r boring'...i can certainly appreciate someone who respect other ppl space and feelings--so u go girlll! i am not saying that we don't make mistakes from time to time...it's part of life.
Note, besides it looks like u may be a little like me...one of those "lady in the streets, but wild (wanted to use other word) in the sheets". let other's think what they want, it's like the song said, "no one knows what goes on behind closed doors...hahaha. just keep up the great work! :)