Quote calliope: If this is a spoiler you did a great job of putting it in the title.
I put it in the thread, you don't have to believe the "spoiler" if you don't want to.
What she meant is you didn't say "spoiler" in the title and since this has not happened, it is considered a spoiler and you shouldn't have given the plot away. But it looks like Dylan is Nicki's child, not Stitch. They are trying to confuse the issue by saying he was in the military. Both Dylan and Stitch were in the war.