Quote laurie6:Quote JRTA:Quote YR2013:Quote alanadz:Quote JRTA:Quote YR2013:Quote alanadz: No one comes before his kids. He said and he lived it. I remember when he and Phyllis first got married, she moved out of her big beautiful penthouse and into that tiny tack house, so that Nick could see Noah EVERY DAY. It was a very smart move on her part.
Another bait thread? How many do put up a day? Nick isn't father of the year and Phyllis wasn't mother of the year. They ALL have their faults and some good too, but don't try to paint it like their are so GREAT because they aren't. ~)
Glad I am not the only one that sees it.
As to previous comments, it's got nothing to do with a "bad marriage". If that was the case, Nick should never have been with Phyllis because that was a train wreck from the start. And before you go blaming Sharon, sorry but it's on NICK. Sharon couldn't have been in his marriage to Phyllis, if he didn't want her there.
Nick has always been about himself. That has never and will never change. Being a good father is even about Nick, because he needs to look like a better father then his own, and needs to feel superior to all.
Sharon sure was in the Phick marriage, every chance she got. Just like Sharon was in Chadam's marriage, and Sharon was in Brad and Victoria's marriage! Sharon would have been in the Niktor marriage IF Victor would have played along!
So everything is Sharon fault huh? Pay back is a biotch and Phyllis sure got a taste of that. What is the Phick/Phyllis fans view on this topic again? Oh yeah, it wasn't Phyllis fault when Nick was cheating on Sharon with Phyllis so as a Sharon fan, I'll say the same, it wasn't Sharon fault that Nick used Phyllis as a therapist with benefits because he had unresolved feelings for Sharon, the love of his life. :D I guess you think the men that wanted to be with Sharon was all innocent and this is ALL on Sharon. ~) If a man said this, I'd understand but when women have this view, it blows my mind. ~)
UPDATE FYI (Sorry, couldn't resist)..... I believe what you describe is called a "double standard".
This whole board is full of double standards, most Sharon fans blame Phyllis for everything and most Phyllis fans blame Sharon for everything, Very rarely does the blame actually go where it belongs which is on Nick who caused most of the problems for these women.
I have to say I am proud of how Phick fans moved on. We were passionate about out couple but good grief, and we like to talk about them and watch the videos, but we don't live in the past. Phick are over and we moved on. Good grief!