It is okay for two people to be in love. But find your own man. Don't glamorize adultery and a love child. There are always consequences for ones actions, whether good or bad. Phyllis and Nick were wrong, and this does not have a happy ending, when a man leaves his spouse for a wench because she is pregnant is not what I would call a happy ending. Only one who would agree with this type of action would glorify it. Sharon isn't innocent either, however, there is room for forgiveness if the two would only look inside their hearts.