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    Never Count A Sociopath Out.

    Tuesday, October 09 2012
    Luke returns from Europe, Anna is surprised by Duke, and Sam learns her son is still alive.

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    Posted by Scrimmage at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:32 AM

    Watfan – Thanks a lot. Well stated.

    There's more to this than just a simple disagreement or misunderstanding. It's apparently become a personal vendetta on Akita's behalf against me, and now I feel compelled to address this issue. As it actually has little to do with any objection to my original post, I think a little background might be enlightening.

    As you say, my supposed “offense” was disagreeing with a point in Ransomha's post, or perhaps the way I expressed that disagreement, but Ransomha and I have had our differences before, and as we can all see, she's quite capable of speaking up for herself. On the other hand, Akita took issue with me some time ago, and at some point apparently developed a personal resentment towards me, which has been brewing for some time and finally bubbled over and expressed itself.

    Last Thursday, after I posted something to the effect that I had no sympathy for the way Connie spoke to Trey because I thought he deserved anything he got, Akita posted this thinly veiled, unaddressed comment which I could only assume was directed at me.

    Akita wrote: “Hmmm, there are deeper issues…this explains a lot”

    I ignored it at the time, but then, after I posted another one of my parody scenes, and my version of a nightclub comic doing a stand-up routine in Port Charles on page 19 of Friday's board, once again, she posted another cryptic, hit-and-run comment.

    Akita wrote: “I just had to come back. Can we say ATTENTION- SEEKER / NARCISSIST?”

    Again, I ignored it.

    It seems Akita has been waiting for an opportunity to try to make me look bad in the eyes of the board, and so when I commented on Ransomha's post, Akita pounced, implying that I was out of line, among other things.

    Akita wrote: “All I can say is keep in mind that not every person on this board enjoys reading your very long comments and re-writes of so many episodes.”

    Then she accused my of being a bully for “telling someone that to continue discussing a topic that has passed and is a moot point.”

    When I objected, she wrote: “You have major issues. … You have such a god comple, it's sad. Get a grip and leave behind all of the insecurities that make you appear as a little boy that has abandonment issues and needs this board's approval in order to feel whole......I see right through you scrimmage.”

    Sunshinegal objected to the name calling.

    Akita wrote: “Sunshine- I’m very sorry if you don’t see or refuse to see what has been staring everyone in the face…that is your prerogative... and if you are one of those people that wants to continue to give scrimmage a free pass just because he has great writing skills……….then be my guess. If he’s wrong, he’s wrong, and I will not be a hypocrite and feed his ego.”

    Then, after other posters chimed in, also coming to my defense,

    Akita wrote: “I stand behind every word. To those that didn’t get it because they simply didn’t’ read the entire comments and now want to attack me for defending my opinion and calling out someone that DID cross the line again by “SUGGESTING” that person move on…so be it. The only thing I can suggest is read comments from BEGGING to END before you step into a discussion. Move on.”

    That brings us to this morning where she once again seemed surprised that others stood up for me, and appeared to be saying that anyone who disagreed with HER was either in denial or being hypocritical.

    Akita wrote: “I’m stunned at the way some people on this board simply refuse to see both sides.”

    And then Ransomha mischaracterized my original post that disagreed with her by suggesting that I said something that I never did.

    Ransomha wrote: “"Move on" is rude.”

    Yes it is, and the only poster who said that is Akita.

    In the past few days, I have been called a bully, an insecure little boy seeking approval, rude, egotistical, insulting, and an attention seeking narcissist. I was accused of having both a God complex and abandonment issues, and anyone who disagreed was blind or willfully ignorant.

    While I don't particularly care for the characterization, I am unfazed by it because I know it to be far detached from reality. I will not speculate on why Akita chooses to focus her animosity and negative attitude on me, and frankly, I don't care. To me, it's just sad.

    My only regret is that the whole board got dragged into this by one poster with a personal grudge. I tried my best to ignore it, but there's only so much one man can take. I just wanted to express my sincere gratitude to Sunshinegal, Monkey83, Lily hunter, Watfan, and all the others who went out of their way to stick up for me.

    Thank you all very much.

    Posted by SouthGAgirl at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:37 AM

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    mama...I'm in total agreement with bayou on the health issue...if the dr says it's ok to put it off then go ahead & get established at work.....BUT if he wants it done now...well all I can say is don't make bayou, aussie, & I come drag you to the dr...you know we will...love ya sis!

    Posted by mamajj at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:39 AM

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    pumpkin...I don't want revenge. I just told him I want him to be happy & succeed in life. I really do. I just told him...you know I love you, you were my best friend for 16 years, your J's dad, I want good things for you. I had him in tears. he says he won't lie to me anymore. I said I always figure it out & look I did.

    Last night he calls saying he wants to come see J. I say OK then we got disconnected. I called back & she answers, I ask for him & she says to me Can I ask you a question. I say yes, she says did he tell you about us, I say yes, she says OK well we probably won't be together anymore, I say OK. You know WTF was I suppose to say & mind you I am at Trader Joes while this is happening. So then I get home he calls again & says he is on his way. OK Then 5 minutes later She calls me & we talked for like 5 minutes. She was crying & telling me about her fight w/him. I was like look that is how he is. I know what your going through I did it for 16 years. Actually she was nice. i don't hate her like I thought I would. She said I was a cool woman & a good mom. I was fine w/last night it's what just happened an hour ago that has got me so upset. UGH I just want to start working so I am not so dependent on him.

    Thanks for letting me rant. I have stopped crying now.

    Posted by SouthGAgirl at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:43 AM

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    OMG raineysmom...I HATE food poisoning...I will never forget getting it years ago right after I tore up my left knee...it was horrible...& trying to make it to the bathroom in a knee imobolizer was PURE H3LL!!! Glad you are better...& yes it strikes FAST & HARD!!

    Posted by 4myJylli at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:46 AM

    OT:

    mamajj, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, but trust me when I say this, the pain will eventually subside, so let it hurt and cry as much as you need to, it will definitely get better.

    I've never understood that, it's like the oldest line in the book, "I didn't want to hurt you". WTH??? The truth always comes out and it does hurt even more.

    So, so sorry you have to go through this though.

    Posted by ransomha at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:49 AM

    SandJ; Wouldn't that make Ethan the "alleged" bad guy?

    Mamajj: I'm so sorry you are going through this difficult crazy time. Like you said, he's your son's dad and for that reason alone you taking the high road shows the kind of woman you are. I applaud you!
    Please take care of your health before anything else.

    Posted by mamajj at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:54 AM

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    thanks 4my. Let me clarify when I told him I loved him it wasn't in a I am in love w/you come back to me. it was a I love you in the sense I will always love him because of our history & our son. I told her that last night. You know we are done. So don't think I want him back. Actually it was funny he really wanted to know what we talked about. LOL he asked me last night & today. You know I even told him If he loves her he needs to go back & apologize to her. I told him if he ever wants to be w/another woman he needs to control himself. he is a yeller. Never physical. but he is bipolar & I told him look I was use to it. I knew how to control you. Another woman isn't going to know how & you are going to scare her. I think I shocked him. But like I said I do want him to be happy.

    Posted by mamajj at Wednesday, October 10 2012 09:55 AM

    Thank you rans.

    Posted by SouthGAgirl at Wednesday, October 10 2012 10:06 AM

    Midas...I'm with you...if from is gone two days a week I won't have anyone to pick on/play with those days either...sniff, sniff!! Guess we will just have to double up on Mondays & Tuesdays!!!

    Posted by bayoubtr at Wednesday, October 10 2012 10:07 AM

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    Mama, so sorry to hear about your latest upheaval. Rans is right. Keep taking the high road and do it with your head held high. One day he will have the "lightbulb" moment and realize what he threw away. But by then, you will be so far down the road and in such a better place. Prayers to you & JJ.

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