I've read all the posts and here is my input.
EJAMI is a NOT a "REALISITIC" couple..
for one thing, like a previous poster mentioned, the WHOLE relationship is mostly based on the "SEX".
Both characters are "LIARS" and neither one of them can trust the other one...
The ONLY time I ever saw EJ TRULY IN LOVE was when he was with Nicole.
Especially when they were raising Sidney and Johnny together.
At least you use to see Nicole and Ej having some recreational activities, a walk in the park, out dining, and even their "LOVE MAKING" was much more ROMANTIC than EJAMI.
To me EJAMI is all about the attraction, the anger and then the make-up sex...
Just humor me
for a sec, if any of you go back on YT and watched the loves scenes between EJOLE & EJAMI you would see exactly what I'm saying...
If Ejami is only "based on sex", Ejole was only based on a lie! He never ever loved Nicole!!!! Their scenes on YT are hot, no doubt about it..... but EJ involved her most of the time to get back at Sami. The last time Ejole had an affair, EJ came so close to even fooling himself that I found it almost scary. Right befor the Ejami grief sex was revealed, he proposed to her and was caught up in the moment. I could see the happiness in Nicole's eyes... I really do like her! Then angry Rafe came along, spoiled their moment and assaulted EJ. The minute Rafe left, EJ was ready to kiss Sami.... She knew it (and wanted it) and immediately fled the scene. From that moment Nicole knew that It was all about Sami for EJ..... she rightfully said that herself before she left him.
Did you watch the Ejami scenes yesterday? I did! To me that was all about a couple who are deeply in love! EJ gave up all of his dreams and aspirations this summer to free Sami from jail. Why would he do that if she was just some easy lay for him? I mean they'd had eachother in every way several times already! Why would Sami react so fiercly to EJ omitting the truth if she just wanted his body?! I totally agree that they're not a traditional couple. We're not getting a rerun of SAFE .... and I'm thankful for that
But we're introduced to something shady, dark, complex and interesting. I do believe they can sort out their problems, because they're commited to eachother..... I see Ejamily time and romance for x-mas