I've read all the posts and here is my input.
EJAMI is a NOT a "REALISITIC" couple..
for one thing, like a previous poster mentioned, the WHOLE relationship is mostly based on the "SEX".
Both characters are "LIARS" and neither one of them can trust the other one...
The ONLY time I ever saw EJ TRULY IN LOVE was when he was with Nicole.
Especially when they were raising Sidney and Johnny together.
At least you use to see Nicole and Ej having some recreational activities, a walk in the park, out dining, and even their "LOVE MAKING" was much more ROMANTIC than EJAMI.
To me EJAMI is all about the attraction, the anger and then the make-up sex...
Just humor me
for a sec, if any of you go back on YT and watched the loves scenes between EJOLE & EJAMI you would see exactly what I'm saying...