Quote jaxann: When Will was talking to Brent alone and Brent was saying it was weird seeing Sonny living such a different life all settled down Will said that sometimes life does not go as planned but you find yourself happier than you ever thought. I really liked that.
And the thing is... That is exactly what he needed to hear Sonny tell Brent!!!!! That from Sonny would have changed everything!
Absolutely right, Jaxann. Instead, all he heard Sonny say was that he can't go and he would like to go and he probably won't change his mind.
Right. I agree.
Probably. Hate he used that word. Leaves doubt. Does not sound like a man sure of anything.
I agree. To hear Sonny talking to Brent he sounds as if he can't go because he has to stay home - not that he WANTS to spend time with Will. But to Will he says there is no place he would rather be than with Will.
I do not like that he says he would "probably" not change his mind. That makes it sound like he is not really sure about the decision. But to Will he makes it very clear how he feels. He is sending mixed messages but I do not think he realizes what he is doing. He is totally oblivious.
I guess I in the minority here. I think Sonny is always reassuring Will about how much he loves him and Ari. When a friend asks me to go somewhere and I already have plans with my husband, I too say I "can't go" it means nothing. It's not only what you say it's how you say it and what you do and how you show your love for somebody. I think Sonny is constantly showing how much he loves Will. He'll do anything for him. He has SHOWN Will this a million times. Don't get me wrong I hate that Will is feeling insecure right now but what else can Sonny do? He loves will he shows it all the time how much he loves Will. Personally, I need to see strong, confident Will like were were starting to see a little while back. I think all this insecurity is going to drive Sonny nuts. I used to be the same way and it drove my husband nuts, I had to stop or lose him (before we got married 12 yrs ago).
I know they will be just find and stronger and more in love (if that's possible
) What I'm upset about is so far in their relationship it seems they have had more angst then wonderful times and seeing how we only have them, so far as we know, until April I would love to see some happy times, romance, fun, and a lot more loving.
By the way, just got back from NH OMG WHAT AN AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL STATE!!!!!!!! AND THE FRESH AIR!!! FRESH AIR IS SOMETHING AMAZING FOR SOMEBODY WHO LIVES IN RI!! FRESH AIRRRRRRRRR OMG! I COULD BREATHE!!!!!
I agree that Sonny is always reassuring Will of how much he loves him. And he did tell Brent that he loves Will and he loves the life he is living and is happy. But Brent keeps on him about how he is missing out and should be partying and spending time with his friends, etc. The only thing I have a problem with is how Sonny tells Brent one thing (he "can't go" with him and "probably won't" change his mind) and then to Will he says he "doesn't want to" go to the party because he "wants to stay here with you." I don't know, maybe it's being to nit-picky, but I think he should be straight-forward with Brent and tell him he "does not want to go because he wants to spend time with Will and Ari" and tell him to not ask anymore. Just be straight with him and cut him off at the pass.
Yes, I wish Will would be confident and secure like he was with Adrienne ("I am the one who he is going to spend the rest of his life with" - "it does not matter what you say or how you feel"). And the way he was with Brian ("Sonny is mine - we are together"). I hate it that they are making him backtrack and be all insecure again.
I have never been to NH or RI. I live in Ohio. I have been to a few states (California, Texas, Michigan, Indiana, Kentucky, Tennessee, Arizona, Nevada. Also have been to Tijuana, Mexico). The last time I went anywhere was last October when I flew to California by myself for the first time (I had flown several times before but with my mother). Then a few months later I fell and broke my ankle and have been dealing with that for the last seven months, so I have not been able to drive since December. I am glad you are able to breathe again LOL.